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Apr 27, 2017

Help! Compersion squicks me! Does it mean I'm jealous if hearing about my husband's dates disgusts me?

0:00 Introduction and host chat

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Today’s cohost is Lusty Guy

1:30 Announcements and host chat

New Dutch bank bunq commercial specifically targets polys!

5:15 Topic: help! Compersion squicks me!

Lauren has been married to her husband for 24 years and non-monogamous (mostly swinging) for 12. Five years ago, she discovered he had cheated, and they worked through it. Now they date separately. And while he loves hearing what she does on her dates, but Lauren is grossed out even thinking about what he does on his dates.

15:30 Feedback

Matthew writes in to say he tried the And then what? exercise to deal with jealousy/fear/insecurity but didn’t think he learned anything from it.

21:45 Happy poly moment

A listener writes in with a happy poly moment of her triad going really well, metamours and all!

25:00 Thanks

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25:45 How to make this podcast better

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