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Jan 12, 2018

Educator, business owner, and burlesque performer Iris Muscarella discusses the importance of nurturing sisterhood in polyamory

0:00 Introduction and host chat

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1:30 Interview: Iris Muscarella on sisterhood in polyamory

  • New insights on relationship anarchy
  • Andie Nordren on relationship anarchy
  • what is sisterhood exactly, and what does that look like in polyamory?
  • What advice would you give to women who feel they aren’t good at making female friends?
  • Iris reaches out to her metamours to introduce herself and to show respect for the existing relationship
  • How to set up metamour group time if you’re an introvert
  • How to let people play to their strengths

26:15 Feedback

  • Maria calls in to ask why we don’t use our real names—wouldn’t it be more powerful?
  • Alan recommended a few Christian poly-friendly churches: the Metro Community Church, Unitarian Universalist church, and the Christian New Thought church

32:30 Happy poly moment

Ann writes in to say that her young triad is happy

33:30 Thanks!

Thanks to Theresa for sending in $100 donation this week!

34:00 How to make this podcast better

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