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Jun 26, 2017

Is it OK that I am feeling displaced by my metamour?

0:00 Introduction and host chat

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1:30 Announcements

We complain about having to close the windows and turn off the fans in order to record when it’s 90 degrees out. J Also!

6:30 Poly in the News

17:15 Topic: I’m feeling displaced by my new metamour

New to Poly is feeling pushed aside by her partner’s relationship with her new metamour, with whom her partner is exploring BDSM. She is feeling displaced because her partner is repeatedly canceling or changing her established chats in order to make plans with her new metamour. Is it OK to feel this way?

  • Yes, it’s always OK to feel whatever you feel!
  • Talk to your partner and own your shit—good job!
  • Work on a shared solution together

25:00 Feedback

31:00 Happy Poly Moment

Diva called in with a happy poly moment about coming out to her kid!

34:20 Thank you!

Welcome Abby as a new playmate and thanks Leadra in Germany for the $69 donation!

17:30 How to make this podcast better

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