Feb 26, 2018
Diana Ryan and Kieland McClellan advise on how to get the most out of swinging as a person of color.
0:00 Introduction and host chat
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1:00 Announcements
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2:30 How to get what you want out of swinging
Diana Ryan and Kieland McClellan give advice to a listener who doesn’t feel welcome in most swinging spaces in Wisconsin and who keeps encountering women interested in her man but not in her.
- See who you vibe with and ignore the rest
- Ask the host to introduce you to people
- If there is a Facebook group, chat people up there first and invite them to say hello when they see you at the live events
- Consider reassessing only playing together—maybe playing separately in the same room?
- Or consider kink events, where people can be more open-minded
Find Diana on her website, 360 Life Skills, on Twitter at @ch1pmunkryan, Facebook at 360 Coaching & Counseling, and Instagram at with_coach_di. Kieland is available on Facebook at Keiland McClanahan or via email at mailto:thelifestyleentertainmentgrp@gmail.com.
27:45 Happy poly moment
Jai writes in to share her happy sisterhood poly moment after episode 544.
29:00 How to make this podcast better
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